Below is my journey on how I came to learn so much about people and adopt such a rosy outlook on relationships…

I began my studies in psychology and human behaviour over 15 years ago. While studying psychology I always took a particular interest in relationship work. Jumping straight into the deep end, I began my work as a therapist in domestic violence agencies. I listened to hundreds of accounts of people talk about all the different ways their relationships became destructive. This experience taught me how to help people make better partner choices from the very start of a relationship and spot warning signs of unhealthy relational dynamics before the relationship turns toxic. I worked in California and in Hawaii (within the military population) in this capacity.

Following this experience I wanted greater scientific, empirical evidence on what makes relationships successful and how we choose partners. Therefore, I moved to London and obtained my PhD. My research focused on the dynamics of both dating and marital relationships, particularly how our backgrounds (e.g. cultural factors and familial ties) can impact our choices for mates and the quality of our relationships.

Compiling all my experiences and education in this area I currently do relationship coaching and therapeutic work with individuals and couples. I also work as a relationship consultant in an exclusive introduction (matchmaking) agency.